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Skills

How to Use Now Matters Now

Free Online Trainings

We’ve created a series of free online courses available to anyone looking to gain deeper insights into Now Matters Now skills and methods. Community Courses are available for those with suicidal thoughts, substance or mental health problems or their family members and friends. Service Provider Courses are available for healthcare, crisis, peer support service and school based providers.

Community

For those with suicidal thoughts, substance or mental health problems or their family members and friends.

Caring Contacts

A simple way to help prevent suicide, for Service Providers as well. (2 hours)

1 Week ‑ Micro‑Interventions

Includes 3 Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills. (2 hours)

NowMattersNow.org Expert Navigator Certification

Prepares you to share the Now Matters Now.org resource, for Service Providers as well. (1 hour)

Service Provider

For healthcare, crisis, peer support service and school based providers.

1 Week ‑ Micro‑Interventions

Includes 3 Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills. (2 hours)

1 Week ‑ Suicide Safe Care

(2 hours)

5 Month ‑ Recommended Care

(10 hours, not yet released)

12 month ‑ DBT skills

(26 hours, Micro‑Interventions required first)

Resources

We regularly create free, printable, and shareable Now Matters Now worksheets and resources to support skill practice and deepen understanding of the science behind Now Matters Now.

Caring Messages

Caring Messages are one of the simplest ways to support someone who is going through emotional hell. Learn more about this brief, non‑judgmental, non‑demanding approach that works best when repeated over time.

Caring Messages examples from Now Matters Now

Downloadable pdf

Caring Message Cards

Download our three options for Caring Message cards and send them to a professional printer. Write a short message on the back and share.

Research and Insights on Caring Messages

Slideshow from Now Matters Now, including video clips from CBS News

How Caring Letters Help in Suicide Prevention

Article from CBS Sunday Morning News

The Best Way To Save People From Suicide

Article from the Huffington Post

Caring Messages Online Course

Free online course

Stop, Drop, Roll

You can “Stop, Drop, and Roll” when On Fire emotionally.

Stop, Drop, and Roll with Now Matters Now

A series of videos from Now Matters Now on how to use Stop, Drop, and Roll

How to “STOP” Impulsive Behaviors

Article about how to stop impulsive behaviors, by Dr. Kiki Fehling for Psychology Today

Video of Eye Contact from Now Matters Now

If you have no one to make eye contact with you can use this video

Conceptual Model of and Intervention Development for Unplanned Suicide Attempts

Research paper on the development of Stop, Drop, Roll and quotes for attempt survivors

Safety Planning

We know what to do in physical fires. What’s your plan for emotional fires? Create your Emotional Fire Safety Plan.

Now Matters Now Safety Plan Guide

An in‑depth workbook guide for creating a safety plan

Safety Planning Phone App

A confidential phone app for Safety Planning, provided for free by the VA, that helps you practice coping skills and access your safety plan easily from your phone.

Domestic Violence Safety Planning

Safety Planning when you’re worried about abuse from a partner, by The National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Substance Use Safety Planning

An example Safety Plan worksheet for substance use recovery, created by The Institute for Family Health.

Now Matters Now Emotional Fire Safety Plan

A one‑page, check‑list‑style handout for safety planning, created by Now Matters Now.

WRAP Plan

Wellness Recovery Action Plan (WRAP) from the Gloucestershire Health and Care NHS Foundation Trust.

Guided DBT

Use a Diary Card and Practice Assignment to make the most of your skills practice.

Posters

Posters designed by our Team.

Stop, Drop and Roll Steps

Ten Things Suicidal People Wish They’d Known

Language Matters

The Science Behind Now Matters Now

We know what helps people in crisis. Now Matters Now was created with that knowledge in mind. Our efforts are focused on three main evidence‑based components: Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Narrative Psychology, and Social Support.

Stress Model

Stress Model explains why, for some of us, it is harder to manage the emotional pain of living.

NMN Overview 1‑sheet

Share this Flyer describing NowmattersNow.org.

Rationale

Developed collaboratively with experts.

Skills Library

At Now Matters Now, we believe that we always have 5 choices for building meaningful lives. These choices help us reduce pain and suffering. They help us move towards joy and peace. They help us connect more deeply with others and with ourselves. Every moment, each person gets to decide what choice they want to make. Now Matters Now offers resources and evidence-based coping skills for all of the 5 choices.